Intuition
The ladder continues by replacing one of the two points with a closed set. A space is regular when a point outside a closed set can be separated from the whole of it by disjoint open sets. The useful form of the condition is a shrinking statement: inside any open set around a point there is a smaller open set whose closure still fits.
It is one thing to be given a seat away from one other person, and another to be given one away from an entire party. The second demand is what regularity makes.
Regularity: a point and a closed set not containing it are put inside open sets that share no point. The closed set is drawn solid because it holds its own edge, and the open set round it is drawn with a dashed rim because it does not.
A point against a closed set
A space is regular when for every closed and every point there are disjoint open sets and . Regular together with is called ; the is added because regularity alone says nothing when there are few closed sets to speak of.